Disclosure: This is a sponsored post by Oxygen but my thoughts and opinion remain my own.
Last summer I posted about Oxygen’s new show I’m Having Their Baby. The show was unlike any show out there that I’d seen before because of how personal it was. Adoption has been a sort of taboo topic and this show was not only showcasing it but showing the different sides of the stories. You got to hear why the mothers are giving their babies up for adoption, which I think definitely took some courage. So many people attack mothers who give their babies up as being selfish or say that they should have been more careful. These mothers made the best decision they could with the current situation they were in. I mean if the woman is already pregnant, there is no point in lecturing her or attacking her.
I watched the series last summer and I really liked it. The women showed their real emotions and it wasn’t staged or fake. I admit I am not one for “reality” like television shows but this one was more of a documentary. I admit that I wanted to see more after the show ended. Well Oxygen must have known what I was thinking and they have come out with the “I’m Having Their Baby: Raising Baby” web series. The web series reconnects fans with the season one families, checking in to see what has happened with both the birth moms and the adoptive families since their episode aired. It is great to see how the families have changed and grown. It is definitely an emotional show.
Check out the webisode “I’m Having Their Baby: Raising Nayamah” from the web series to see where Jamie’s story from season one is now:
Season 2 of Oxygen’s I’m Having Their Baby premieres Wednesday June 12 @ 10/9c. Each hour-long episode will feature the personal stories of women struggling with unplanned pregnancy and ultimately deciding whether or not to place their baby with another family. The season will delve deeper into the lives of birth mothers entering the adoption process, their family and friends affected by their decision and in some cases the potential adoptive couples. The show is produced by Hud:sun Media with Michael Rourke and Bryn Freedman as executive producers.
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Savannah miller says
I love that they let the birth mother be involved 🙂
Kisa says
The mother has so much strength to be able to go through pregnancy and be able to give her baby up for adoption. Her baby will be able to look at this in the future and have a lot of respect for her mother for giving her a great home to live in.
sandra davis says
i think she made such a good decision when she knows how hard it is for a single mom raising kids. shes an amazing person.
Sandrea Igess says
That is great the daughter is able to get help for coping with the adoption process.
Rachel Ellis says
I liked when Jamie saw Nayamah again for the first time, the look on her face was priceless.
Carla D. says
Birth mother seems pretty confident with her decision. Whole video was moving. <3
Steph Coupns says
I like the fact that they have an open adoption, it’s really nice to see
Sindy Murray says
I think is awesome that she is able to see the baby grow and both parties have good communication with each other.
Susan Johnson says
I applaud Jamie for having the courage to be realistic about her situation and to give the baby, and her three other children a better life by giving the baby up for adoption to a loving couple that was willing to stay in touch with the entire family. I really think that is amazing.
susan smoaks says
i love that it was an open adoption and everyone seems really happy!
Richard Hicks says
what I like is the open adoption. So important!
Marcia Goss says
The most moving part was when she gave the baby to the adoptive parents.
Saver Sara says
the open adoption part
joseph gersch jr says
I like it that the bio mom gets to see her child and there are positive releationhips
Geoff K says
What was most moving to me was seeing the open and civil relationship Jamie developed with the adoptive parents in her story.
Suzanne Lewis says
I like that Jamie realized having another child was too strenuous and gave the baby a chance with a stable couple.
Heather S says
I like that they stay in contact for the child
susan quackenbush says
how unselfish she was.
Samii Meyer says
I love that the families are still keeping in touch
Christine says
like that the birth mother still is allowed to see her baby
Sarah L says
I liked that the families kept in touch with each other.
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Beth Klocinski says
Open adoption – wonderful for everyone
Kjasus says
I like how the birth mother can still be a pert of the baby’s life
Michelle Tucker says
How very touching. I imagine it was so hard for her to make that decision. Kudos to her to know what the best thing is for her child and not being selfish.
Erica C. says
The ability to have an open adoption is the most moving to me…I can only imagine it’s so hard.
Maureen G says
Fave part was when Josh & Jan brought Nayamah to Jamie’s home
ken ohl says
birth mother seems fine with her decision
tim says
I like that everyone is working together for the baby
Valerie Taylor Mabrey says
I think open adoptions are fine but like all things, everyone has their own opinions and the child or parent has theirs and by then it’s too late.
Carol Mclemore says
i love how there is no tension
Christine M says
The most moving part was seeing the pictures of the kids give the baby a bottle.
Roxann says
I like that they are keeping in touch.
Starr Greenwell says
I think its great that the child is the most important priority.
Kristin @ Keenly Kristin says
I really liked that it’s so causal and “normal” (as in no tension or awkwardness) between everyone involved…what a great thing for the child involved. 🙂
jules m. says
i think its great that they keep in touch and let the birth mother be involved
Deb S says
I really like the open adoption – I think it is helpful to the kids after they are grown to understand the reasons behind the adoption
Wild Orchid says
I thought it was moving that the oldest daughter was seeing a therapist because she was having difficulty coping with her sister’s adoption.
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Carol V. says
Our cable company doesn’t offer Oxygen, so I have not seen the show.
Megan Cromes says
birth mother seems at peace with her decision.
Claire McKeon says
Wow, the whole video was very moving. I guess my favorite part was seeing how the older kids interacted with Nayamah. Very cute!
Madonna says
I like that the birth mother can still have contact and know about the baby.
Lisa Davis says
I like that she put her oldest daughter in counseling. What an incredible, selfless mother.
tiffanie tavernie says
I like that its open adoption
Gina H. says
I was very moved by how the birth mother’s 8 yr old daughter took the adoption so hard. But I was glad she’s getting counseling. Adoption is a wonderful gift but it does effect everyone in the family.
beth m says
lovely to see the adoptive mother and bio mother together loving the child
Karrie Millheim says
What she gives up her baby to two loving parents 🙂
Carla C says
The great relationship that everyone has with one another. No bickering or fighting. Everyone just wants what is best for the child
Kyl Neusch says
get 2 families
dvine l says
the child is blessed to have two mothers.
shantelle stately says
I really like that they are committed to maintaining open relationships.
Alyssa W says
The adoptive parents are so happy!
Stacey J. says
When the adoptive parents left with the child at he end could have been a very difficult situation. It’s good that both families are in close contact with each other.
Claire says
i like how the mother likes that her baby will have a father.
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Kim says
love the open adoption aspect!! 🙂
Tabitha P. says
i love their closeness!
Ellie W says
My favorite part is the relationship between the birth parents and the adoptive parents.
Monique Rizzo says
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destiny says
It’s great seeing the relationship between the families my friends also have an open adoption and it has been a very positive experience for them all
Daniel M says
the families stay connected
kim says
I like that she knew she couldn’t raise another child and the fact that it is a open adoption she can know how she is doing
Rosanne says
I was touched by her handing over her baby to the adoptive couple. What a perfect act of love to think of the baby over herself and to give the baby a better life.
Susan Smith says
I like that it’s an open adoption and Jamie and her children can still see her baby.
Donna Kellogg says
I think that having the open adoption is great for the child 🙂
Austin Baroudi says
I like how the mother acknowledged that she wasn’t ready to take care of a baby and gave the baby to a family that was ready for it!
Claire says
I think it’s really nice that this is an open adoption. I’ve had several friends who wanted to know their birth parents and could never get in contact with them.
bonnye sensenig says
love is truly all that matter-s so so happy!
Brandy says
I like it when the birth mom held N during their meetup. SO sweet
Peter G says
The birth mother still has a part of the child’s life.
Sarah Hirsch says
i like that the family stays in touch
Aubrey says
I like that she is giving the baby up for adoption instead of getting an abortion
April Brenay says
love that the birth mom can still see the baby 🙂
Christine H. says
Aw it was sad to see her have to hand her baby over. It’s nice knowing that the child has a chance for a good future 🙂
Tamar says
I like how they are able to bond as a family when they reunite
Kim H says
Keeping in touch after is really interesting
Nancy says
I like that she was able to make a decision that was in the best interest of the child, be OK with it and still keep in contact with the adopting family. A very hard choice especially for someone so young.
Vunda V says
i love that the childs needs come first and that mother made a huge and very mature decision!
Margaret Smith says
This show looks so good. My favorite part is that the families keep in touch with each other, which I think is very important for both families. Looking forward to watching this show.
Shani says
I like that the adoptive parents seem like really nice people.
Adrienne Gordon says
I like the parents kept in touch
Cynthia C says
I like that the adults agreed to stay in touch so that everyone could be involved.
Sherry S. says
I like how they are letting the birth mother see the baby.
Stephanie Larison says
I love that it’s all open and they keep in touch. I think that will work out great in the long run.
Kiara says
I like that it’s an open adoption.
Gianna says
It sounds so sad..
Shanda J says
It was bittersweet to me that she gave up one child since the other three will wonder about that in the future. It was the best choice for her though.
Mary Williams says
I love that the birth mother will still be able to see her baby!
April Martin says
I like that everybody gets along so well! Very heartwarming! <3
dawn k says
I am stunned at the selflessness of the bio mom. What an incredible act to sacrifice some of your own happiness for the happiness and well being of another.
Tamra Clifford says
My niece is 22 and having her 1st baby.
Sarah Scott says
I liked that the birth mom still got to see the baby.
DawanaH. says
I watched Season one also! I love the idea of catching up with the families. I love that they put the child first and that there is no weird tension between the families and the adoptive parents.
wendy rozema says
how they chose what’s best for the baby!
Blessie Nelson says
I don’t know what to really think about open adoption – it has got me thinking hard!
Amy Orvin says
The open adoption was very moving.
Margie says
I like that all the actions are based on the child’s best interests.
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Michele P. says
the most moving part to me was watching the birth mom, her other children, and her grandma seeing the baby with her adoptive parents
Kendra says
Bond and child priority
Veronica Vasquez says
I love that the families stay connected! So beautiful!
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Cher says
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gen says
i loved her jamie wanted nayamah to have a father that loved her
fancygrlnancy (Nancy Partin) says
Seeing the family together.
jessika rathbone says
the bond, and open adoption.
Francine Anchondo says
i like the open adoption
denise says
I think it might be confusing for the child
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alisa says
i had a friend give up one of her babies for adoption because she could only take care of one, i think having the birth mom be able to see her baby is very important so that is my favorite part
Katherine H says
I just like that it is all about love for the child and isn’t that what’s really the most important thing!
Tanaya S. says
When she said I will see you later.
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scott says
I like how great the adoptive parents are.
Peggy Greco says
This is heartwarming and interesting a couple will have a baby to love and be parents and a opportunity for good life. Since its open adoption connections between child and families will be comfortable now and in future.
Yona says
i love how there is no tension between the adoptive parents and biological mother – and that the biological mother/siblings are still in the baby’s life.
Sarah Ann Walker says
I like that the birth mother still is allowed to see her baby.
Lynn says
i like how the mother likes that her baby will have a father.
Lisa says
I really appreciate that everyone’s priority is what is best for the child in the long run and all the love that is shared among them for the child.
Nancy says
I liked the way she looked out for all her children and wanted the best for them all.
Stephanie Phelps says
I love that they still get to stay connected and how open they are
Ashley Tucker says
I love they have an open adoption and are so close
Courtnie says
I like that they all will get to be a part of the baby’s life.
Lauren U says
I like that they have an open adoption
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Jill H says
Favorite part was when Jamie said no goodbyes I will see you later
samantha s says
This show really moves me. I just teared up when the oldest daughter was also moved and affected by the baby being given up for adoption. But I’m really respectful of her choice to do the right thing for her and her family even though it’s so hard. Even when they have an open adoption… I still feel it’s so bitter sweet.
Linda Bradshaw says
I thought that it was so awesome that she put her feelings away and did what was best for that baby. She seems like a good mom. she even realized her girl needed counseling to talk about it. I hope she has a great life and is blessed for the sacrifices made!
tara pittman says
The babies are so cute
Angela W says
Birthmom still seeing her child was good!
Glenna F says
It is nice that it is an open adoption, I know that that would make it somewhat easier.
hollowsins says
The joy on the parents faces is priceless
Leah Shumack says
i love that it’s an open adoption
Shea Balentine says
How open and honest everyone was
Emily Adams says
I think its great that Jamie’s oldest daughter cared so much even though she was so young, its also wonderful that the birth mother is still able to visit her daughter that she gave up for adoption. A bitter sweet story
Elizabeth Berlovan says
I like that the birth mother still get’s to see her baby.
Wendi says
I like that they stay connected
Beth Hill says
I love the fact that the adoptive parents and the birth mother stay in touch and share in the childs future!
Jennie Sanderson says
I really liked that the birth mother got to see her child, you can tell she loved the baby.
Birde Skolfield says
When Jamie said no goodbyes I will see you later I lost it
Jessica Snow says
I love that they’re all going to be apart of the babies life.
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Denise Ewan says
that the birth mother will get to watch her baby grow !!
Annmarie W. says
It’s such a hard situation…especially on the kids. I’m glad they got the oldest daughter some professional counseling to help her through.
soha molina says
I liked watching the adoptive parents interact and gush over the baby.
Barbara Montag says
Favorite seeing the adoptive parents and birth mom together.
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rebecca shockley says
I have so much compassion and respect for this mom, who in her heart wanted her baby, but knew she couldn’t financially do it
Virginia Rowell says
This is a real tear jerker! I was so moved on how far she had come when the adoptive parents brought her over to see her. She said that it was a little easier than the first time.
Ellen B says
the families stay connected – good for the child
Olivia Rubin says
I got to finally watch the video..it loaded. I appreciate that counseling was sought out. It is important that she learn to,express her feelings and with counseling and a loving family she can find peace
Angie Moeller says
it is very moving that you get attached to a baby inside you then have to give it up. But there are so many women out there that cannot have children so I think it is amazing for someone to have someone elses baby.
Tabathia B says
I could tell it hurt her to give up her daughter but she made the right decision as a single parent of three already and wanted her baby to have a stable environment that included two parents and it showed how hard adoption is to other siblings in the family and she understood that her daughter needed counseling. I also appreciated the adoptive parents keeping Jaime involved in Nayamah’ life
Melissa says
i like the bond the familys have.
Maggie Smith says
I love the fact that they have an open adoption so they can see the baby and all the milestones!
Lisa L says
I love the open adoption! So great for all involved!
courtney b says
i like how they make open adoption work so well!
Cindy says
I like that the adoptive parents get to see her.
Kimberlie says
I liked how they were all waiting by the door for the adoptive parents to bring the little girl to visit. What a wonderful sacrifice to give her a better life!
latanya says
the most moving part is when they give the baby to the adopted parents
betty says
I’m amazed at the open-ness of the adoption arrangement. The children should grow up without the anxiety of not knowing who or why things happened.
rachel travis says
I think it’s neat that they keep in touch with the birth mother…I know it has to be hard!!
Joanna F says
I like that the birth mom can still be in the baby’s life
Carol says
It’s great she’s keeping a in touch with the family them bringing pictures was the most moving part.
Wanda McHenry says
I liked when Jen and Josh brought Nayamah over to visit and that there are no tensions between the two families.
Cindy Merrill says
Speaking for all those women who were forced or threatened into giving up their children, I can tell you that it’s not easy to function when your kid’s birthday comes around and you realize you’ll never see them. My child was born handicapped, so it’s impoosible to get his consent to ever meet him….the two birth mothers pictured above lucked out beyond comprehention.
kathy j says
take a lot of strength and guts to realize you can not raise another child after having children. I give her credit. it was hard to see how it affected the oldest child.
Jennifer T. says
How brave of Jamie to put up Nayamah for adoption! I love that it’s strengthened her relationship with her other 3 kids.
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Beth says
I appreciate that she wanted a better life for her daughter but I can’t even imagine. It’s nice that they’ll still always be a part of each other’s lives.
tracy p. says
I didn’t have a favorite or moving part. I don’t get why she gave away her kid. She has lots already why not that one more. Later in life all those kids will wonder why that one child was so different or “bad” that she got rid of only her. I am so confused with that clip right now.
Claudia says
I like the open adoption.
Marti Parks says
My favorite part is when they all got together to visit.
Erika T. says
Oh my gosh! I cried through the whole thing!!I have three children of my own, however my sister has been trying to adopt for years. It has been one heartbreak after another! She was recently placed with a baby only to have the birthmother take it back after 4 weeks! This is such a personal show that brings a whole new perspective on adoption! I love the idea of open adoption where the baby is surround by lots of people who love them!
katy P says
I really liked it when Josh gave them the album of photos. I love that they are keeping a relationship with the baby’s family.
kelly says
I like that the adoption was open and they still had a connection.
john patterson says
The mother is involved
Lynn says
I thought it was touching how the mother was willing to give her daughter up for adoption because it was what was best for the child, even if it hurt her.
Katie Morris Crider says
I think it’s great for the birth mother to maintain contact w/ the child. I don’t know if I would be that brave as an adoptive mom.
kara locke says
I like that they have an open relationship birth mother/ mother/ baby. Its really nice to that!
meredith says
I think an open adoption is a great thing if its the right choice for your family – can provide couples who cant have a baby a chance to have a family and truly use the ” it takes a village” approach to make sure the little one has a family
Amanda says
To me, it was all sad. I felt equally bad for her and the daughter.
Kate F. says
I like that the birth mother still gets to see her baby.
Sadie says
I like the open adoption.
Dorothy Sandman says
An open adoption is wonderful!
Tiffany W says
i liked how they were all waiting by the door for the adoptive parents to bring the little girl to visit.
christine jessamine says
i love that they are all still part of the babys life
Julie Wood says
It took a lot of love and courage for Jamie to give up Nayamah. But she knew that she was not going to be able to raise her, and she did the best thing for the baby by giving the baby up for a adoption to a loving couple! I think it makes Jamie feel so much better when she can see Nayamah and see how she is doing. Great episode!
Jessica H. says
My favorite part is that you can see the love of the new extended family. It is amazing that the birth mom could make this hard decision, but still be able to be a part of her daughter’ life. And that her grandma can still be her grandma, and her siblings will always be part of her life. That was very moving.
Sue Hull says
I liked when jen and josh brought the baby over to visit her birth mom and siblings. I also liked that she gave the baby up because she knew she couldn’t afford to raise another child. Thank you 🙂
Amanda Hoffman says
i love how they still visit and follow up and gave the birth mom and siblings pictures
Lillian says
That is tough all around. Sad for the 8 year old who knows what’s going on and is taking it hard, sad for the adopted girl in the future: what made her be the one to go, ya know, why was she the one the mom couldn’t handle, not the 3rd child, etc. I can’t believe the emotions for the birth mom, seeing her so often, knowing she’s not yours, constant reminder, and if I was the birth parents I’d worry she’d try to get her back when she’s more stable!
Elizabeth Owens says
These women seem so tough and strong to be able to give up their baby. It seemed like a smart decision but still so hard!
Rebecca Orr says
I liked that the birth mom was honest with herself and realized she wasn’t able to financially care for the baby. And I liked that she got her oldest daughter into counseling.
Dawn Monroe says
I admire her strength and genorosity.
melina r says
most moving part is giving the kid to the adoptive mother and crying
Brynn says
I love that the birth mom is going to keep in contact
polly says
loved seeing her daughter holding the baby
sandra says
i like that they go over the family bakground so you know where they’re coming from
Denise Taylor-Dennis says
I am just amazed at how open this adoption is.
Debra Hall says
wow thats really awesome but, i could not do that
Louis says
the most moving part was to learn how hard it was for jamie’s oldest daughter
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Carrie Phelps says
I think the most moving part is when she admits that she won’t be the one her baby cries for. She’s so brave and I admire her for making this decision based on the needs of her children. She’s so awesome!!
steve weber says
the part where the girl is looking out the window at the parents.
Lori Z. says
I love the family portrait of Josh, Namayah and her mama.
Jamie Brigham says
I could never give up my baby, I am amazed at how strong some of the women are. I have 3 children and love them to death but I would find a way to make a 4th one work… for me pregnancy, birth and raising the baby is something I’d never want to miss out on.
nannypanpan says
i like that the kids gt to see each other, but it broke my heat that the 8 yr old was so sad
MarilynsMoney says
The difficult decision of giving up a baby
Thomas Murphy says
I like when Jamie tells her story of adoption
Cynthia R says
i really liked how the adopted parents bring Nayaremah to see Jamie and her siblings, its so nice they have a relationship
Seyma Shabbir says
I couldnt imagine giving up my child and visiting them knowing someone else is raising them but the positive is that the child is alive cared for and loved.
Sara Floyd says
I like that she did the best thing for the baby, even if it was hard for her.
Olivia Rubin says
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jamie braun says
the most moving part for me is that she knew what was best for her daughter , even if it was the worst for her
Jessie C. says
I got teary when Jamie gets to visit her daughter in the adoptive family. This is just not the case for one of my best friends. I love how both families stay in touch and get involved.
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Karen R says
It is great to see the birth mother and the adoptive parents share in the baby’s life.
Christina says
I loved this update (I watched all of the first season). My favorite parts? I loved that Jamie sought out help for her daughter when she was having a hard time after the adoption. I love that Jamie has enrolled/is on a waiting list for school. I also love that the family is maintaining a relationship and they really seem to get along great! I really hope they are able to continue building that relationship over the years.
Amanda Sakovitz says
I liked hearing jamies story
wendy b says
Actually my favorite part is just the fact that she was willing to give the baby up because she couldn’t provide for it properly. It’s good to see common sense.
Candice says
I watched this episode when it first aired, and I love seeing how well the little girl is doing with her new family, and that they all still get together.
Kayla says
I was surprised to see about the counseling. I never even imagined that would be part of it.
Stacy says
How much she does love her
Jennifer says
I love that it’s an open adoption!
Michelle H. says
I also could not imagine doing this. I am happy for the parents who want to raise this baby.
Kaycee says
What an amazing blessing for all involved. Wow.
Janet W. says
The most moving part to me is watching Jamie get to visit with her daughter and the adoptive parents. That’s so lovely that she chose to give her a better life and that both families are so wonderful to each other.
Lisa B. says
I couldn’t imagine doing this! I liked watching the kids playing together and that they will be bringing her to visit 🙂
Elena says
My favorite part is seeing that this baby is happy in her new family
Kelly D says
I like that she said she is doing what is best even if it hurts the most. I thought it was sad for her other kids.
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Stacey B says
the most emotional part for me was listening to her recount the first time seeing her after giving her up
Lisa Brown says
Most moving is when Nayamah got to meet her sibling and biological family. I am also happy that the adoptive parents where hand picked, that is always reassuring to the biological parents.
Tammy S says
I thought it was great that Jamie realized that her older daughter was having a tough time with the adoption so she got her into counseling.
Livivua Chandler says
i am very excited that she got her daughter some counseling
Mary Happymommy says
I like the fact that the birth parents and adoptive parents stay in touch.